‘I am Destined’ or ‘I will write my Destiny’?

What is Destiny?
Is it something that’s written in your fate? Will an astrologer tell you what it is? Is it what you were born with? Is it what is expected of you? Is it what you work your ass off to achieve? Is it your dream? What is it?

Destiny.
-noun, plural destinies.
Something that is to happen or has happened to a particular person or thing; lot or fortune.

According to me, destiny is something that was written in your fate, but it is only up to YOU to achieve it. No other super forces are going to magically gift you your dream. Of course, you might be naturally gifted with something. A talent, an ability, an affinity towards anything. But to be an expert, to be the master of your trade, to do something spectacular with it, you need practice, dedication, determination and the will to get that dream in your hands. No one but you can do what you want, especially the way you want it.
We use the phrase ‘destined to do it’ so frequently, that we might have actually forgotten how to achieve it. Destiny isn’t magic, destiny isn’t a gift from the dreamland. And sure, life might be a story but it sure as hell isn’t a movie. Special effects don’t happen. All these super-successful-hard working-giant industrialists/superstars/fantastic people didn’t get to that level in a day. They weren’t gifted success on a silver platter. They worked, worked and worked. And then worked some more. They didn’t get to the ‘elite group’ without failing. They’ve failed way more than we know, but what did they do? They DIDN’T GIVE UP.

There are so many factors that contribute to success and dreams. But mostly, it’s hard-work. There’ll be people who say smart work gets you to the good places. I agree, probably it does. But it’ll never get you to the best ones.

To achieve your dreams, to fulfill your destiny is to be successful in whatever the hell was your dream. Don’t slack. NEVER think ‘I’ll do it tomorrow’. The only thing that you achieve  by postponing things and by being lazy is: NOTHING.

When you start working towards your dream, the society will throw rocks at you, and it WILL hurt. But stay strong. Collect all those rocks and pile’em up until you have a mountain. And then? You wouldn’t even need to throw the mountain. It’ll be so huge, that it’ll be standing in the backyard of your house while you sip imported coffee and sign huge deals. Or maybe sing songs, or play games. ANYTHING. You will be happy, and they will be crying.

Destiny is something that you write, and unless you finish writing that chapter of you life story, you will not have finished your book. So work hard, keep faith and know that there will always be people who support you. Even if you don’t know them yet, they exist. So stop dreaming about it, start doing.

And even if you don’t, and I say this A LOT..Even if you don’t, I have faith in you.*hugs you virtually*

That is Destiny, in my opinion. Tell me what you think Destiny is.

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The Blog about The Block.

So I did start a blog finally, and what did I do after writing four?

I STOPPED!
(Because THAT’S WHAT PEOPLE DO!) #references

Why, you ask? I don’t know, maybe because I am the laziest ass in the history of lazy asses!?

Hear; rather read carefully okay, I am not defaming myself or putting myself to shame because of what I am. I am just putting out the truth over here. I mean, a blog for me was about sharing experiences on a platform where there could possibly be someone who would relate. And I’m extremely sorry if my grammatical errors are bothering you dear reader but I do not mean for it to be this way.

Now, please do continue reading.

So the actual reason I haven’t been writing is because I am facing the most powerful tool of writers’ destruction – A BLOCK. I have no idea what to write about. So all I have been doing is procrastinating EVERY SINGLE DAY, without fail.

Now please do keep in mind that I am no ‘writer’ but well a block is a block is a block.
Haha, gotcha! no, not really I know.

So basically, this is how it happens:

1. I read other people’s work and get super overwhelmed.
2. I keep reading.
3. I do nothing except reading their work, just to get a complex.
4. I decide this world should be a safer place.
5. Just kidding, the Armageddon is coming.
6. Since there was way too many topics while reading others’ works now my poor little brain gets confused.
7. I keep juggling about topics, instead of picking one and writing a.k.a. procrastinating.
8. More topics are added now, so I’m juggling higher a.k.a. more procrastinating.
9. A topic has been picked. (Cheers to me!)
10. By now it has been so long since I’ve written that my brain has forgotten how to write.

And voilá, WRITERS’ BLOCK!

I did actually write a poem a little while back on the topic ‘procrastination’ which was full of not-needed crap, so I’m going to write another absolutely un-needed poem.

Staring at the blank walls,
I’m staring at the screens,
The books on the shelves,
Are teasing,
They are laughing at me.
“Evil little monsters,
I’ll show you what I got!”
I stare at them, while talking,
While thinking of something.
It’s been two weeks since 15th,
And now august is here.
I’m still,
Staring at blank walls,
I’m still,
Staring at screens.

THANK YOU if you read that.

I know, I can be quite the dramatic person. I am still typing off because I feel like there’s not enough content. See, now I added content.

Let me know if you could relate and if you liked it-or not!

Okay. Bye! Have a nice day… Or night! (whatever’s applicable)
( ^ω^ )

I am Awesome…Kind of. #humility

“Just remember that after some time it’ll start to look bad, and when that happens you still need to stick to your word.”

I was talking about a pony(as in a pony tail), but I’m pretty sure it would be applicable to whatever you were thinking.  The problem with a lot of us, is that we don’t have a hold, we lack surity.  We lack consistency.

And if we take a look at any, ANY successful person in any field what they have in common is grit and will power.  Other than that, when they reach their goal, they are still committed and the best part(mostly) they’re all so grounded. Many people might disagree to this, due to the cause that, I don’t know, maybe work can’t be done that way.

Well, eh.

Humility is a very important characteristic of human behavior. Everyone should show humility and be humble. I think that’s enough preaching for today.

Always be nice(like me..#humility).

To yourself first and then others.

Okay. Bye! Have a nice day!

Blog No. 2!

You have no idea how long I’ve been waiting to write that. Or rather post that. But it was only possible if I’d written a no. 1 which was possible only if I’d opened a blog. Okay that wasn’t the point.

Here it is-

I’ve always thought about how crazy it is that at this exact moment there are millions of different things happening. Sleeping, watching something, eating, crying, being born, dying, coming out of depression, realising their goals, playing, surfing(the web or otherwise), shopping, writing, or probably thinking about this exact same thing.
It’s insane.
It makes me feel like I’m a tiny, useless part of such a magnanimous world.
And also makes me feel like- Woah, I am a part of such a magnanimous world.

I mostly go with the second feeling because it’s good to feel good about yourself. And if there are so many people, my chance  at inspiring them goes up.
Confidence levels boost up, and you become free to say whatever the hell you want to. And that’s a nice thing.

And I promise myself I’ll always have the confidence to keep these posts no matter what. Even when they sound absolutely ridiculous when I read them in the future(and I know for a fact that that day will come).

 

Okay, bye! Have a nice day!

HEY THERE!

You never know what to expect from berries, they could be sweet or sour. And so is life. I know, deep.
You never know what to expect from berries, they could be sweet or sour. And so is life. I know, deep.

I have no idea how I am supposed to start. But I’m definitely going to try. I guess I am supposed to introduce myself here.

Okay, here goes.

I usually have a great desire to be early and achieve SO MANY things in life, but since it happens- I end up being late, which isn’t quite the inspiration, but you know. So that’s how the name came up and also because everythingelsewastaken. Get it?

So that’s a teeny part, join me and you’ll know more!

(I am supposed to say that right?)

Okay bye, have a great day!